Jak,
You're laying your cards out on the table for him. He would be wise to stretch, tolerate some discomfort, unbalance himself, and grow as a person and into the M.

Let's hope something moves him forward.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching