This is interesting ... on 8/8/8, my wife and I will be married 8 years.
Your insight into this process is outstanding, every sitch is different. That's why you do what works for you and stop doing what is not working for you.
W, Kidlet and I are doing well. Made it through our 1st week back together.
Hound, I just want to add my thanks for your selfless help around here.
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
Hound can you help me explor my ego problem? i realy dont want to have one when dealing with my wife. she deserves better then that if we are going to make it.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
Well, I've read lots of your advice here, so me thinks if you could take a gander at my situation and let me know what you think.
I am acting "as if" everything is fine. He really wants me to be fine. He loves her just like he used to love me. They won't see each other much (every other month maybe) so that adds to the Umph of the relationship.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too