first time in a couple of months the divorce was brought up. on the way to a family function , she asked me if i had filed my papers. i said no, she assumed that i did not since she was never served. i then asked her when she was going to move out. pushed her on this probably a little too hard. she said when she received her share of her fathers estate she was going to pay our daughters braces off and the credit card. i questioned her why she would not use this money to help herself move out. pushed again. she even commented on using some of the money for my oldest daughters wedding next year. i honestly don't get it. the only thing she seems positive about is that we are ending. she acts like everything else will be fine. she certainly does not seem to be any hurry to move out or sell our house. was tough week for patience. i failed miserably. God is patient with me. thank the Lord for that.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
