BT, that is awesome! Do you realize what a positive interaction that was?

You have just sent her a "mini-Dobson letter" by telling her you are reading a book on divorce. She goes away thinking "Hey, I thought *I* was the one controlling this situation...why is he preparing for divorce? He might actually walk away from *ME*?"

DO NOT get pulled into an argument, because she will probably come looking for one, knowing you may be planning your own exit from this mess.

You have upset the apple cart and introduced your strength into the mix.

Nice work! Don't let it be undone!

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!