So I am thinking, let's see, after a few weeks of not being around me, talking to me, etc., let's see how "happy" he is. I can bet a million dollars he won't be. B/C I am NOT in charge of his happiness. And he needs to see that for himself....I highly doubt that me being "out of the picture" is going to suddenly put him on cloud nine. In fact, the reality of passing the kids back/forth and not having our usual friendly convos during the week I hope will shake him up a little. But honestly I am still mostly cutting off communications right now b/c I can't take all this crying and hurt that comes after I hang up the phone......
I think this is very wise BBJ. I know that you and H planned to S awhile ago and it didn't happen. I think that this time apart will do both of you good. It will give you some time to heal and hopefully H will start to get his $hit together. I really don't think their is much hope of restoring your R until H gets so serious IC. I know he was planning to do that once he moved, what is the status of that now? My H started IC 9 1/2 months ago but I didn't really see much change in him until 8 months into it. What I'm trying to tell you is that if you are expecting H to change you have to be willing to wait it out.
I'm home w/ D10. Nasty cough that kept her up last night.
