nlt, it has been a while since I posted or checked up on you. Sorry. Anyway, Addie is right. It is usually the unfaithful that end up leaving because they think the grass is greener on the other side. Try to stay positive amid all this crazy times due to the lawyers. My lawyer is kind of a different lawyer. She is part of (from what I have found out) a growing number of 'dispute settlers'. They try and figure out the easiest and most amicable way out of these horrible situations. She warned me that W's law dog was going to try to stretch things out so that it would eat all of W's fee. So far she is right. So, I am firmly convinced that most lawyers are just out to pad their pockets.

But aside from all that, Addie is correct when it was stated that you need to be pleasant and keep away from the R talk. This will just push him further. If you need to vent, vent to us. Try to improve yourself. Think up more things than you have already thought of to do. And more importantly keep positive. Remember, your main driving force is you.


Ken
Me: 37
Her: 38
Son: 8 (spina bifida)
Son:2
M 6/24/1994
S 1/21/2008
Original Sitch