I took my kids to a birthday party this weekend and the wife showed up as well. She ended up taking my middle daughter from the party to take her down to the harbor where she is cleaning a boat thats for sale (one of her current odd jobs). After the party I went down there to pick up my daugther and when I walked up to the boat another worker was there grabbing a beer out of the deck cooler. My wife has been working this "job" for 3 days and seeing the beer there really upset my oldest daughter who walked away crying. Since my W has been out of rehab I have been careful not to have any alcohol in the house when she comes over to visit the kids, I make sure there is nothing that would even remind her of alcohol (this was also at her request). Her sister has been doing the same, but it sure seems like my W is purposely choosing employment that keeps her near drugs, alcohol and those people. The past couple of days she has also been very quiet and appears ridden with guilt all over again, I think she is already relapsing, only just over a week out of rehab. What a joke.
Last edited by mako_man; 03/17/0812:13 PM.
Me: 37, engineer, former Marine Her: 33, HS dropout, retail sales Kids: 3 Daughters 11,9,3 2 Dogs Seperated since Jun07
