ISH...boy did this bring back memories...my H wasn't so kind...as we were planning our very first ever anniversary party for our 25th...the cake, the cruise...the whole thing he abruptly left me...following my nieces wedding he just didn't come home...
How is it possible that our stories have so many commonalities? The day after we returned from his niece's wedding he rented an efficiency apartment. He said that for the first time when he heard the priest talk of everlasting love and committment he looked at me and didn't feel anything. That sounds like a good reason to move on with one's life without even considering marriage counseling. (Major sarcasm.)
Originally Posted By: imLIN
can say proudly that we finally celebrated another anniversary, our 28th in Hawaii a few weeks ago!!!
Congratulations! That is so wonderful. Learning that things worked out for you has given me hope, I can't tell you how much I appreciate that little ray of sunshine!
Originally Posted By: imLIN
I know it is hard to keep being hopeful...because there are no promises...but as I say and how I felt was this...until one of us was to remarry there would always be hope!
In the light of day, after sleeping, and, after reading everyone's messages I realized that I wimped out yesterday and surrendered to panic when I read his words. Fortunately, I kept up with the DB and didn't over-react, haven't reacted yet as a matter of fact.
Thanks everyone - today is another day!
Me: 59 H: 59 Together: 28 years Married: 25 years in August "There may be someone else" 12/26/07 H signed a one year lease 4/1/08 H moved out 5/11/08 H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08 Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08
