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Well I was able to talk with my W last night and she has been upset that the children have not been emailing her and letting her know how school has been going and such. I told her that I always encourage the children to check and see if they have recieved any messages from her and to reply to them after school when they have more time.

This is frustrating to me because if she wants to know about the children I don't understand why she chooses not to talk to me about them. I have told her that I will tell her anything that she would like to know, but she has never asked.

She also told me that since the children haven't spoken with her in the last week, she decided to log into my D12 yahoo email to see what she has been doing. Come to find out she told me that she had also logged in to mine to see about any emails from the school so she would know what is going on with them.

I have nothing to hide from her, I am not even really concerned that she checked my email. I know that had I checked hers that it would have been a completely different story( although I have no way to do that considering I don't know her password ).

My W has told me that she has considered changing my D12's password for yahoo chat because if she is going to ignore her while she is online then she doesn't need to use it. I asked her not to change it because it would just make things harder for me here. I guess I will just have to wait and see what is going to happen.

After my conversation with my W, I asked my S15 why he hasn't been emailing his mother and if he was going to. I told him I thought it was important for him to let her know what is going on with him and his school and he flat out told me " If she cares so much about what is going on with me then she could have stayed". I wasn't quite sure what to say about that, so I just encouraged him to email her.

I also told her that things are different here now that she is gone and that I didn't want her to worry about the kids and thier school since she was trying to find a job and get setup for herself. I told her that I would deal with it.

She cut the conversation short because she had to go and pick her father up from work so I am not sure if I am going to talk to her again tonight.

I was just looking for advice on where to take this conversation from here.....