H never came back 5

[MichelleLT]

Well, I don't quite know how to describe the last 7 hours. The taxes are mostly done.

Then went to dinner. Split a pitcher of cider and just chatted for a while. Walked back to his place, then he wanted to watch a movie. Watched the movie on his bed using his laptop (the TV was taken between the other 4 guys) then I say well I'd better get going and he says he wants to talk. I say I really don't want to because I haven't much enjoyed our talks the last 8 months, he says yeah, he can understand that. He says my letter really got him thinking - it totally screwed with his stereotype of me and has made him question a lot of things. Then he commented how complicated everything is because he has always been dumped, he has never broken up with anyone (I guess he's not counting me lol). And that OW will arrive at the end of this week and he's confused and doesn't know what to do and is dreading it. Then he asked what I expected and what I wanted. I said I expected he would file for D, but if that happened what I wanted didn't matter at all. HUGE R discussion, but not an argument, no yelling, nobody got defensive, I only welled up a couple times with tears. Then I went to leave and he kissed me goodnight! Except it wasn't so much saying "goodnight" as "don't leave" lol.

I have no idea what any of this means as he hasn't actually broken things off with OW and I have no idea where things will be in a week, but it's certainly a huge leap in the right direction!