Yoyo, is this your thread? Sounds like the party thread to me. I will spill my guts for a margarita, rocks no salt. Please use fresh squeezed limes!!!!!
Now, that I have a cool one, (BTW not nearly this bitchy in real life,) I want you to know I am an open book. I am not a success story yet, but I think I have a great beginnings of one! What are you looking for about me? My threads should all be in midlife crisis archives, unless something has changes lately and they are not available. Maybe the board had to reconfigure? If I can save you any time, what part of my journey are you most interested in? I can try to guess what my thread was titled at the time, but maybe it would be easier to reconstruct that without the research time.
Let me know, I am here to help (as long as the margies are good!)
Cheers, Holly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
What I have seen about your sitch, looks good. I do not know you well enough to judge the amount of gentleness and letting go of the rope that you do. Getting in the car with D to go to H, for me, would have been a big risk, until I had something more concrete to do. It tends to make you look a little over eager, and allow him to cake eat? Just a quick judgment, not an informed one..... Help me out, give me some feedback.
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my patience my history of backing off from H my history of mystery about myself for H (not sharing all the facts) my gentle response to bad news, or information from him. how many times in the last 6 months have I lost my temper with H in front of H? GAL
um, can't think of anything else right now, so that is a start.....
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
Hi Holly, Thanks for stopping by,one margarita coming up. BTW I prefer margaritas also, but I like the salt. We do like to play a little on this thread. Just wait until the gang gets going...
Are you and your H still separated? If so how long have you been separated? I did manage to go back and find some of your threads. It certainly seems things are looking up for you.
My H and I do spend a lot of time together, but he has not committed to coming home yet. Since January we have spent time together on the weekends together. We went to a ball together, out of town together, and a wedding reception as well as going out to eat with other couples a few times.
Hi LWB and Husband, H came over tonight to give me some money for a fundraiser we will be attending in a couple of weeks. It should be fun, it will be a "dress your decade" event with a piano bar set up. The 80's are our decade, not sure I will dress the part or just go with the "modern" look.
Hope everyone had a little Irish luck!
Hugs,
Last edited by Yoyowife; 03/18/0802:54 AM.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Dress your decade, sounds like fun! But were the 80's really so different than today? I still have lots of stuff from the 80's in my closet. I would just need to lose 20 pounds and I could wear it!
