apparently the separated under the same roof was a cheeseless tunnel, for 12 mths all remain the same or got worse, so perhaps this physical S is for the best. There is sucha thing as being too close to the sitch. Use this time wisely to not do more of the same that wasn't working. Having your H there physically didnt help to bring him back emotionally, my H and i were sleeping separately for 6mths, he was not willing to change anything nor work on the M, he was there but not there.
I pray that your S is for the best, for both of you to grow and to make the right decisions.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
