my family was surprisingly quiet, I was expecting more anger... then again I didn't mention ow nor the hell I've been through these past months, the alianation, the hurtful lies. They were really surprised I kept the whole thing from them, perhaps a bit hurt i didn't trust in them, told me how they would do anythng for me (I always knew that \:\) )

I had to tell H about a changed dentinst appt for tomorrow, and lo and behold he tells me that he wants in writing that i wont leave the country while the kids are little, (fine by me), then he said the state! til kids are of age!! wth???
OK< so I know many people up and leave with kids (for many reasons) and the other parent is left without seeing them as often. He's obviously been told that and now says he'll fight me tooth and nail to make sure it says legally I cannot move out of the state with the kids.

THat we'd stop mediation if I want to fight him on that, inmediatly, that he doesnt' want to loose his kids if I decide to move back to my country (which is never) or move out (hightly unlikely but...). To me is akin to tying my neck on a rope, he says he doestn' care were I go, it is about the kids.
GREAT, now I have to look into that and see what can happen if we were to go to court, grrrr!!!!!!

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.