Im still I dont know..these guys are crazy and do strange things frequently ...they say and do things that constantly indicate R is over and this will continue till he is out of the tunnel put on your seatbelt keep DB and try to take care of you You will probably not be able to get through to your H for quite some time 1-2 years post bomb they say good luck peace
Thanks for that. I was beginning to think that he needs to reassure himself that he wants to be out of the marriage. I know he has been leery of doing anything which might rekindle our relationship. e.g. will not accept invitations to walk the dog, is reluctant to accept small kindnesses from me. Just before I left for my parent's house we had been out to dinner twice and he was no longer sleeping on the very edge of the bed. I don't know if we can remain non-divorced long enough to see the end of the tunnel. OW is pressuring him.
Me: 59 H: 59 Together: 28 years Married: 25 years in August "There may be someone else" 12/26/07 H signed a one year lease 4/1/08 H moved out 5/11/08 H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08 Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08
