Funny though....we blame the OW...when it is H who pursued. How messed up is that.
That is messed up...I once told my H last time to tell the OW to back off! He later told me that it was him doing the pursuing, not her. My anger comes from thinking that the OW should be woman enough to tell the married man she doesnt want him. Why cant they just tell them that? My H actually told the OW that if down the road it didnt work out with them, that he would probably then try to work things out with me! That is what is messed up!!
So, what do we do about it?
Good going Cagzmom...seems like you have a handle on your addiction....I need to use the same approach to my H and to food!!!
Take Care!!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
