Hey guys, Sorry it's been a long time since the last update. Lots of little things have happened but I'm cautiously happy to report that we're together and things seem a lot better.
I still feel hurt sometimes when I think about the OM but I don't let it show.
We've been enjoying our times together, taking vacations, picnics etc. Sometimes I feel we're going back to the way we used to be i.e. normal. We still haven't spoken a much about what happened to us and why she did what she did. She maintains that I was an @ss to her at times. I maintain that every couple has some issues but they don't just get up and leave without trying to work it out. We get no where on these topics and she gets defensive discussing them so I've stopped caring about it.
I'm quite happy and thinking about picking up my 4 year old hobby again i.e. racing cars. We're also thinking about buying a house to settle down but the prices are in a flux so we're waiting on it.
I'm definitely considering talking to her about some kind of a 'pre-nub' agreement though. I don't want things to turn ugly and then me taking a beating on the financial front too.
OF, Kiki, miss you guys. I hope you guys are doing well. Please drop me a note on mtumse@aol.com and I'll email you back my permanent email address.
Romeo, good to see you again! Glad to hear things are going well. I do want to throw this caution flag at you, if she hasn't taken responsibility for things, she is not done. Beware.
