I did this for a week, last week - went completely dark, no contact. I did this more for my own sake after a major backslide where I was very angry at H. I knew I had to detach for my own emotional well being. H tried to contact me a couple of times and I didn't respond. I don't know if it improved the sitch but H has been "different" (in a good way) the last couple of days. Maybe it made him start to really think.
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"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz