Please help - I need DB advice ASAP

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Im still
I dont know..these guys are crazy and do strange things frequently
My H was just the opposite though..he didnt want many people to know and if he told someone, he would say we split up or the M has been over for years
he never saqid the truth which was I woke up one day and decided not to be M- we tried to work it out but couldnt..all BS
In his mind it must make some kind of sense, so I think it is ok to ask him- whenever I have asked H, he does explain his reasonings..many times they dont make sense to me though..
I was told to just validate and affirm
If your H is just beginning this journey this will take time
maybe ignore it ..they say and do things that constantl;y indicate R is over and this will continue till he is out of the tunnel
put on your seatbelt
keep DB
and try to take care of you
You will probably not be able to get through to your H for quite some time 1-2 years post bomb they say
good luck
peace