Hpw are you man? You sound like you are in the same exact spot in all this that I am at. The only dif is I am no longer in MC, W will not go anymore, you are still in MC which is great for you. The only thing I want to throw in is this is going to take a very long time. Give her lots of space. I see so many positive signs. I know it is hard but keep yourself busy and give her space. Make yourself interesting again. I like everything that Ali says above except going dark. Respond to her query's but keep it short and don't answer them the minute you get them.