Kiwi, I totally hear you about taking your vows together in front of God. He gives each of us free will, while respect the views of the folks here a DB who can forgive and forget to try to save their M's but there is a line in the sand for all of us man and we have to decide where that is. After a while trust becomes a very difficult thing to repair. I fel for you but am glad you are taking it so well and are getting on with YOUR life.
