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was just thinking of this since yesterday, but on a different angle. I had him at his best, at his peak, the best years of his life when he was healthy and young, no one will ever, not even him, take that away! ever. The new person my H is, I want no part of, his outer shell reminds me of that good man he was, but that's all it is , a shell, the good part is gone.


Amen, sistah!!! I have one more thing that OW will NEVER have. I have his children. Thanks for the reminder that OW has the cheap imitation of my real marvelous husband.


Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.