I don't believe he will ever see me as an attractive option. I'm part of his past life that he says he was unhappy in. He wants fresh & new; that's what he's rebuilding his life with now. He has a house of his own now and someone new that doesn't look at him knowing what he did. That is a very big deal to him; he wants to forget and move forward. I'll always know what he cost us and that is why he no longer wants to be around me.
For what it's worth, I think that's typical. It would take a level of courage that few people have - esp those who left like our Xs. It really has NOTHING to do with YOUR inherent worth as a person or your attractiveness - physcially or otherwise. I know that may be hard to believe, but it is the truth, Hope.
Take care, Nicola
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