PS: My MIL emailed me and offered me and S the use of their holiday home over the Easter break. Very nice offer and it's good to know that despite the sitch, my IL's still feel enough about me to stay in touch and make such a kind offer.
I gave my MIL the DR book recently and I think she has read it with mixed feelings, prob knows I did LRT and it kind of worked but ultimately things regressed. She sent me a text message saying it was a great book but she had really mixed feelings after reading it although it gave her hope.
I am still making sure I control or limit my backsliding and start every day being goal orientated and focusing on my 180s. So, I am still DBing to all intents and purposes.
-------- Me; 38 W; 34 1 4yr old S Married 4.5 yrs, together 9 yrs Bomb; 15 June 2007 Holiday together Sept 2008; My Dad dies Nov 2008; reconcliation fails Nov 2008