H is having affair after all

[Holly06]

Tell H I am not sure I think Easter Hat will look good on him.....

Evie, you are studdering!!!!!!


Stick to your boundaries...... it will save you, and H is testing them.

In regards to MLC,
my thinking is that there is a childhood issue that remains unresolved. better indication that there is a mlc. The other signs are there, and he is just winding up!!!!!

Dad issues? Mom issues? Not good enough issues?

They will try lots of bandaids, OW, drinking, internet porn, new looks (shaving chest hair is a new one for TJ, and he is on the downside!!!!!!!!
Trying to mask a depression.
Look up covert male depression, see if that fits.

When you get The Solo Partner, that will be an eye opener too.

How do you feel knowing that you are not alone in this sorrowful and sad existance? Does it help?

I found comfort in H going through this was a process, and I just had to sit on the curb and watch.
One poster, in 2006 had a thread titled, just sitting on the curb, watching the mlc spin. Pull up a cement block I am serving margaritas, what will you have?
Pull up your feet when they get out of control, and they will come to "mommy" when they need to touch base with comfort.
blah blah blah.
It did help me, because there is usually an end to processes.