I will try this again with a clearer head..help

[Dom R]

If OM and W are meant to be,

there is no such thing as "meant to be".
People make their own choices. They choose who they are going to be with, and then they choose whether or not to make the relationship work.

Some relationships take more work than others.
Some relationships are more rewarding than others.

BTW: Those two factors are not neccessarily interlinked, in my opinion.