I swear I think the best thing h and I did was take all business conversations to e-mail. takes out all the drama/emotion and gives both of us a chance to process before answering. granted, we are both good about answering them...not sure if your wife is or if she's a staller. but it might be something to consider in the future. has that added bonus of having it all nice and neatly recorded for you, too, so no misunderstandings later.
honestly if you are worried about finances and about your credit being affected, I'd probably move on things quickly. bad enough having to go thru all of this crap without being dragged down even more by it.
good luck, mark.
btw, I find it very interesting that she wants you to schedule the next meeting instead of doing it herself.
have you guys met with a mediator yet, btw? or are you trying to get things started first? or does the fact that you both have your own attys mean you are not doing mediation?
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