Oh, Stella, I'm so sorry that you have to be going through this!!! It is so difficult to have our suspicions actually confirmed. It seems any progress made to detach, goes right out the window. Once again, the pain becomes so raw.

I don't know what to advise. Go back and read Jokerman's sitch, read the dog analogy, read threads of other WAS that eventually returned to their M. Your H is still in his fog. It may only start to turn around for your M when OR starts to fizzle out.
Hang in there and keep posting.


Me47
H46
S13
M16
Piecing since May/09

"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz