The thing is, I expect, and I am ready for the pull-back!! My DB coach Joann said it will happen nearly every time while my W is in this confused state, and is perfectly normal. She called it the "chameleon effect". When things go really well, it will be followed by a period of doubt, coolness etc. That is exactly how it happens with us. So I need to have faith that following Joann's advice will give us our best chance.
Here's some more mild DBing in action for you: I am selling my Bowflex machine because where I work has a pro gym room. I put it on Craigslist, got lots of bites, just finished selling it and the guy left with it.
So W phoned about 15 minutes ago..."I forgot to ask you, any action on your Bowflex?"
"Oh yeah, it's sold, guy just took it".
"What! You never phoned me!!"
"Oh...sorry. Well anyway, it's gone, you should see how big the spare room looks now!"
We had a really nice, upbeat convo, and she told me she was going to spend the rest of the aft reading her book, I said "well have an awesome afternoon, see you soon!"
In the past, I would have told her everything as it happens. This is a 180 for me, I think it surprised her a little
