W2G, That's a really positive sign. Yes, keep doing what you are doing. It seems to be working (maybe not as quickly as you'd like though). I immediately get similar negative thoughts when H doesn't call S but then something "positive" usually happens. Your goal is great: to become your favourite person in the world. Your H will most definitely notice this.
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"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz