Ok I have a complete new stratgy for my M. I'll be going dark as of midnight (EST ) I can't deal with the way we get on and the fact that I'm usually the one initiating contact.
Jen, this may be good but your H has responded to what you've been doing and has noticed the changes in you. If what you are doing is working, then keep doing it and monitor results. I become very impatient when I start to notice some positive signs and want to move things along quicker. When H doesn't respond the way I expect, I usually backslide and it has the opposite effect. Maybe just try not initiating contact but don't go completely dark.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
) I can't deal with the way we get on and the fact that I'm usually the one initiating contact.