I actually considered not posting this but then who am I hurting? I have a good idea of why my H thinks I am jeckyll and hyde because I can't stick to this for any period of time.
I went with D4 to the princess party yesterday and it was quite nice. Given that all week H has been carrying on about going out Par-t-ing on Saturday night I arranged for a sleepover at my BIL's house that D has been dying to have. Let H know I had made the arrangements so I was ready to Par - t too. Of course I was told that I was not invited(not sure if he actually even had plans or was just screwing with me as previously discussed. Then he told me he wasn't going out at all as I would probably go"hunt him" I did ask if he wanted to go for a drink togehter. The answer was no.
So I decided that if he wanted me to go out alone so badly I would. I think he thought when he decided to stay home so would I. I really had no where to go but thought I should do something so off I went. I really had in my mind I might go sit at a bar but I have never done that before by myself and really don't know how safe it would be. So I decided to go to the casino a town over. H did contact me on the way to see where I was going, said I wasn't sure. Went in took $100 but only spent about $33 then won $50 back and decided to leave as parking was 10 bucks and I was even. I was there about an hour and a half. When I came out(no signal inside) there were 3 texts from H about 45 minutes old, the first asking if I wanted to meet him at a local restaurant/bar for a drink, the second 10 min later saying I guess not and the third 10 min after that saying U R real cool, since I had not responded. Having no signal is really the only thing that gave me willpower! So upon leaving I decided that meeting for a drink is what I did want to do. I texted him back and he wanted to know where I was, told him casino, he said he would meet me at the bar in 20 min. 20 minutes later he was calling again trying to figure out why I wasn;t there yet, he assumed I was at the local slots. When I met him at the restaurant it turns out he had been driving around town(for no particualr reason...) and noticed a car the same as mine at the restaurant and that is why he asked to meet me there because he had thought he found me(pointed out that he was "hunting"). We stayed about 3 1/2 hours and came home,all recent boundaries blown once again.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009