I am slowly learning to read everything Holly writes. WOW!
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He is the one who sheds light on what these guys are feeling, and brings an important concept to the table, called "projection". That is where H trusts the W (or visa versa) with all his bad qualities, and his affair partner with all his good qualities. It is pure fantasy, but until they go through the process of taking back the qualities they "parked" in other people, they will not hear anything you have to say. He has all the answers. So save your breath
O.M.G. This is beyond true. So very true.
Eve, just wanted to pop in and say I am thinking about you, my friend. Hope you are doing well.