Thanks HIC, I plan on doing that. I am not a patient person so I know that this will be a long process...LOL. I am a forgiving person and have been a loving and supportive husband. My wife has been a great mother and a great wife but it has been a one sided sit for some time. I chose now to hear what she says and take her at her word. I am glad to have found this place and folks like you who I can learn from in hopes of not doing anything destructive out of my own selfish desires to not be lonely.
