ANM, I hope I feel so much better once my hysterectomy is completed...
My parents will be helping me out...but he has avoided my parents like the plague. So when I have surgery, I expect him to virtually disappear. Actually I am okay with that...I prefer to convalesce w/o having him around. I can do so in peace and won't be bothered by his incessant harping about finances. I am lucky that my disability at work pays 100% of my salary so I don't lose any income. Anyhow, I expect that I will be going to stay with my parents who live in another city so, I will be going pretty dim on him if not dark.
that will be different as he is used to having A LOT of interaction with me, either by phone, text or e-mail. He drops in sometimes...not as often as before. Probably because the house is a mess and he hates that. He makes comments about it and I have to hold my tongue...I used to DB and keep the house IMMACULATE. He never noticed or at least he appeared not to notice.
He is very Latin in this regard. Expects me to keep the house clean and 'service' him when HE wants/ed it. I really do not like that he feels this sense of "entitlement". Like this is what he SHOULD have.
Anyhow, I have gotten off track...
I hope that my surgery brings a lot of peace and closure...I am really anticipating tht it will...
Hugs! Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
