dry heat,
I thank you for your honest opinion.
I found out that she is not on the rebound and she is behaving in an undignified way with no class by responding to this man. Who again is fictional. Ok maybe I have to take into account that she has our D and she is suffering from stress and fatigue.
Maybe this was the nail in the coffin doing this to her.

I still don't think it was a huge crime. Though I should have had more control and I went against DB rules \:\(
So a huge back slide from me \:\(
I have learnt that she has a loose tongue, no class and dignity when comes to talking to a stranger.

I think she is more angry now than ever. It is going to take longer now to melt that anger. I hope she can understand why I did it. But I dooubt she will \:\(


Me: 41
estranged W:37
D:16 mths
M: June 2006 together Sept 2004
Separated in Separate beds from end of April 2007
S: from marital home Aug 2007.