Thanks for the thoughts and prayers guys. To livin life, i love name you have given my H's ow "puke". that is what I wanted to do when he confirmed her exsistence.
to answer some of your questions, yes H still sees her everyday at work. He says they do not talk. Does she respect the fact that he is back home and working on our marriage? I have no idea. I wish I could get rid of the thoughts of her by telling myself it was just physical, but H has made it clear that it was emotional as well. That is much harder to deal with. My H promised her a life with him so she is very bitter that she fell for it. She also acts like she is the one he cheated on. I do not feel sorry for her at all. I do see the changes and the effort H is putting into trying to fix our marriage, however, the intimate part of our relationship is non-existent. I need hugs and kisses and to make love and he says the feelings are just not there for that with me but he is working on it. I guess it was so different being with someone thin with a good body and coming back to chubby ol me. This just sucks. I need the warmth and comfort and it is not there. He didnt seem to have a problem being intimate with her. Any insights?
