debra, i am sorry you saw the ex ow and it is causing you such pain. but your h is home and trying to get it right. someone mentioned trying to feel bad for her. i used to want to strangle the ex ow. but since she called me and my h acting scary and desperate, i think she is pathetic. i still can't figure out why these ow think that things will be different for them. my h never promised anything to ow. and she acted like she was the married one and i was the ow when h started telling her he wanted out of that relationship. does your h's ex ow respect that it is over? does she try to have contact with h? my h has told me as have several friends that the ow is short, thick, and plain. i am very attractive, so i feel bad that she isn't pretty! like she offered him something else obviously. if she was attractive like your h's ex ow, i could feel better by saying it was just physical. lisa
