I agree with the others here. Don't do this to yourself, although I know it's easier said than done. I, too, have done it. I have no idea what the woman (women, as I have reason to suspect it might have been a three-some) looked like. I have asked him, but he can't even remember as he was too drunk. He said he can't honestly remember even what color hair she (they?) had. Mine was also not an affair but a one-night thing. (Most of it due to his alcohol issues, but that's a whole other can of worms.) I am a very attractive woman. I keep in shape, have always had a great body, beautiful face. I'm smart, funny, kind-hearted. Plenty of men would be happy as hell to be with me. My point is that it doesn't really matter. Men are far less discriminatory when it comes to women than visa versa. Would you feel any worse if she was ugly as all get out? And what someone above said is true. Looks aren't everything. I would be willing to bet that she's not even half the person you are. No...I know she's not. Why? Because she had the moral fibers to be able to have an affair with someone else's husband. That tells you right there what she's like. She's a puke, just keep remembering that.
