Just wanted to check in with you...hope your 4th was great..our picnic was good..despite 95 degrees..h and I went to park with some friends for fireworks..nice day in all..

I was rereading your posts..it must drive you nuts to wonder what your w is doing..is she making some of the stuff up or not..has she ever had a tendancy to do that?
She could be testing you, yet she must see that you stick by her not matter what...maybe you do need to shake it up a bit...not be there each time she has a panic attack.

But no, after I wrote that, that is not right..that is what a couple is suppose to do for each other..be there no matter what..good and bad..so don't listen to what I say!!

Some people tell me I should pretend to have an interest in anothe man to make my h realize that I might not be around and wait for him to decide what he wants..but in my heart I could not do that..that is playing games..and for all the things we need to fix in our m, games and lieing are not something we have ever done..so why would I want to start now.

Keep being you...you know when to back off..when to step in, and that is great.

Sue