KAW, in reading your sitch...ex-bf's ex-w, when they were still married but she wanted out and nothing to do with him...she had already left him once, went back, and all of a sudden wanted a new BMW...a $40,000 car. The bank called him and he politely told them to forget putting his name on any piece of paper having to do with that car, but she got it anyway...with a $700.00 per month note. They separated months later and divorced shortly after that. So he was not stuck with that note, it was all hers. Be careful with the finances...not a good idea to have your name on something while you are having a hard time of it in your M. Good luck!