Quote: So is she! Its just she believes that if she stays in M she is compromising herself, because she feels there is something better out there somewhere for her.
I would imagine it's normal to feel that way when an a hasn't fully run it's course..or until the m get's on course...when my h first started his "return" he did say one thing that still pisses me off when I think about it...it relates to the statement you make here...
his words (though he doesn't remember them now) " I have to put my needs aside"
ugh!! to me that said...I need and want to be with ow, she after all is better at metting my needs than you and the kids...but I have to do the right thing and come back home to you and them.
whatever...
it's not an easy road KAW....but what I've found to work...is that when ya stop focussing on them and just make yourself happy and do things for you and your children then they will have to either join in (willingly because they want to) or leave. either way you have to be ok with it.
so KAW what are you going to do for YOU this week???
