Unfortunately there are times when you can't do anything but detatch. It seems your at the point where there isn't much that you can say or do with your W that is going to result in any postiive interaction.
If that's the case maybe it's time to really give her the space she wants. Focus on yourself for a while. Replenish your tank..you've been emotionally draining yourself through this process, which is natural to do. Find some things you like to do, that are fun for you and just do them. Do things with your kids that don't include your W. Take some extra burden in that regard while she sorts things out.
A dream it's true
But I'd see it through
If I could be
Wasting my time with you
-Band:Phish Song:Waste
