Basically, she is gone into a WAW mindset. Not only is she pushing away, but over the weekend she started being less nice in her mannerisms. Making comments that she wants more privacy and to be left alone.
I've trying to give her space, like Sunday, we were at the local mall searching for the new Harry Potter book and a couple of other items and they were sold out. I suggested going to a bigger mall in the next town over about 45 minutes away. W replies she hates going there. D9 says she wants to go. W snaps back she wants to go home. So I suggest we take W home, then D9 and I can go to mall. W resigns, "I guess I'm outnumbered, so I'll go." I emphasize that she didn't have to go, we would take her home. She answered "But I don't want to be home all alone." So I dropped it and she went. Has a fairly decent afternoon considering Didn't find a single copy of the HP book tho.). Then thru out the evening, she became more withdrawn. Tonight, it was an effort for her to have a conversion about her day. Left to do some errands by herself and when she got home, she started some playful banter with D9. After a bit, I entered the room. W brought up she saw a jeep with a dealership in Ellenville and wanted to know where that was. I looked it up on the map. As long as D9 was in room, W was OK. When D9 left to watch some TV, W started withdrawing immediately. So I soon left to herself and here I show up!
I'm troubled by her progression towards pushing away to the point of no longer wanting to be in my presence, but at the same time expects us to move forward in buying a new Jeep for her to drive. She knows it will have to be financed in my name in order to get approved credit for it. I'm getting more uncomfortable with this.
