Quote: I just hope I can find the confidence you have found in knowing I'm doing the right thing ... what ever that may turn out to be?
you will know what the right thing to do is when the time comes to do it.
you offer such wise and insightful advice to so many of us here that it is often difficult to offer it back to you.
all I can advise you to do for now is to get back to you..that doesn't mean retreat from w or shut her out..it simply means putting yourself and your needs first for a while (if not indefinately, after all what can we offer others if we offer nothing for ourselves) make sure that you are happy and aren't compromising your happiness simply to keep the peace...cause certainly that won't be peacful for you!
w needs to "see the light" in her own time in her own way...confronting her with the knowledge you have about what she's been up too and or thinking...may be what she wants but it certainly will not help you or her in the long run...deciding what to do about what you know inside yourself is a whole other story though and that I have no advice on at this time other than to make yourself happy and pamper yourself for a change.
