KAW..ditto what Lee said...there has to be a point for all of us, sooner or later, when we have to let the other know that we can't go on the way things are any longer.I heard that for months..more in newcomers, that we will all know the right time. I know there seem to be so many "right times", but when we cool down and rationally sort out what we are truly working towards, they turn out not to be the time. When you can truly say from your heart and soul that you can't do anymore and you need to move on for yourself..we will probably all know it.

I don't have any pick me up words to say that can make it all go away..but know that I care and am thinking about you. I have confidence you are pretty level headed and will do what you have to do..especially for yourself and your kids.

Take care
Sue