Don't really have much to add right now...but you mentioning how your W snuggled you out of "guilt" made me think of something about my sitch. I asked my W once why she continued to snuggle me in bed while having her A...while having "no" feelings for me... Her response was that it was comforting. I think, like my W, your W finds great comfort in you. Go figure... Anyway, I believe there is strength in this comfort. I'm just hoping your W will tap into it before it's too late.
