KAW,

I've read enough to be really amazed by how similar my sitch is to yours. It's uncanny how many of us seem to be living the same nightmare. (are you actually married to MY wife?)

So, I'm curious about how I can help, especially in the context of the words you chose to quote in my last note to you on my old thread..... communication (in the realm of sharing about ourselves). And trust. And acceptance. And respect.

I believe these are key, and I do see where you might gain from some reminding about them.... What can I do to help???

I hope I don't sound superior. I've learned much from reading your posts, and I see so much of me in what you are going through. I've also been around this board long enough to know that it's the subtle differences in the similiar sitches that are the most valuable. Your sitch sounds so close to mine...

Be well...

z