Matty, Thank for dropping by. It has really meant alot!
Oh I remember your sitch very well and have contemplated alot as to whether or not mine would have a good chance of become a happy ending like yours.
The difference is I'm thinking about it too much!! You rected based on your gut feeling and spontaneity of emotion played alot into shocking your H. I also got the sense your H didn't really want to leave you to pursue his fantasy. I can tell with my W that being with me is holding her back from being able to persue hers. Those two difference are probably enough that the outcome would not be the same.
I agree on knowledge is power and it helped me know how to stay the course last year, but I don't see a clear course this time on how to use the power or if it really is a power this time.
