I can't tell you what I would give for a snuggle from my H. Enjoy it. Hold on to the good feelings it brought for times when it gets hard to find them. I am so sorry your situation took a yucky turn. Yours was one of the stories I followed and found hope in. Your are a wicked DBer so I don't have worthy advice. I'm still working out my DB mojo if you will. Maybe JJ is right about not being so attentive to her. Sometimes I think Ss have in the back of their mind we'll always be there no matter what. To leave to come back to no matter what. Maybe bottoming out my shake her up a bit. If you tried that it may get worse before it gets better. Me, I'm feeling a little like a doormat. Think I'll be attentively detached if there is such a thing. Hang tough.