I feel deeply for you and I'm sorry for the turn of events. You are getting alot of good advice here to confront W about her journal and show her the door.

If I were you, I'd be very, very angry and from my DB experience, this is not the right time to be making critical decisions. I hope you can cool off before making a decision on her.

Apologies if you have read MF's Sitch before, however if you haven't I would recommend you read up on it.

Suit

"It's better to have no spouse than have a bad spouse"